W-day prep: Akad nikah ceremony!pelamin DIY???

Okeh...last week actually dah setel pasal tempat akad nikah...

ermmm...tak buat kat masjid...

outdoor!!yeye..

eh, bukan lah tak nak buat kat masjid, tapi ada beberapa perkara yang telah dibincangkan...

nak tau?

meh nak citer..

first of all, saya berterus terang dengan my dad tak mau buat kat masjid kalau boleh..

sebabnya, tarikh kawen saya jatuh pada tarikh saya dalam keadaan tak suci..huhu

and my mom pon belom menopause lagi..

saya nak semua ahli keluarga saya semua ada bersama saya ketika majlis akad nikah tu..

mula-mula ayah saya termenung jugak lah...tapi beliau hormati...

sebabnya, masjid kat area rumah saya tak ada dewan nikah khas...kalau ada, senang..memnag buat kat masjid semua boleh masuk...kan?

and I have chinese bridesmaid too untuk bawa dulang hantaran..ada hukum yang mengatakan bahawa orang bukan ISlam boleh masuk masjid (salah satu cara berdakwah) ada yang mengatakan tidak boleh...untuk mengelakkan percanggahan pendapat, to be safe buat kat tempat lain...

TAPI DENGAN SYARAT DARI MY DAD..

suasana tempat tu nanti akan ditukarkan seperti dalam masjid..

no meja no kerusi..

semua orang buka kasut...

cuma pelamin jer...

OK Daddy!!!:D

the best thing is, kitoang wat survey untuk majlis akad nikah sesama....kitorang is my dad, my mom and me..

macam lawak pon ada sebab macam2 jenis tempat kitorang tengok including dewan restoran...hahaha

but a big no no lah sebab it sound weird and tangga tinggi sangat..

kesian orang tua-tua...   

padahal memang tak nak kan??haha

akhirnya, jumpa lah satu tempat ni memang best mula-mula ingat mahal tapi murah ja..haha

within budget!!

masalahnya plak, at first i thought nak pakai pelamin yang sama untuk kenduri dan nikah...

tukar kerusi jer...tapi sekarang memandangkan 2 tempat berbeza, kena cari pulak pelamin nikah..

untuk save budget ingat nak DIY jer..

tapi mampukah??

tengah tunggu adik-adik balik untuk bincang bersama-sama sebab nak buat fresh flower..huhuh

korang rasa macam mana?

seriously im not a creative person...but my mom and younger sister sangat creative..

I just don't want to burden them lah..fresh flower kot..

kalau nak upah, bajet memang dah lari tak larat nak kejar dah...huhu

and the design yang i very much like is this

yang Elyana punya....hihi

dewan tu besar gini ler...

tak yah panel-panel tu..

kusi nikah dah ada (pakej sekali dengan kenduri)..

design-desing tepi tu buh bunga skit-skit je..hihi (skit ker??;p)

leh tak DIY????

nota kaki: Bridemaid, bapa pengantin semua dah tempah baju...pengantin ni tak ada masa nak tempah..huhuuhu

W-day prep: the excited daddy!

The title should be the nervous daddy...hihi

he started on his checklist this week..!!!
let see what he's done so far..

First, his guest list...he reallly worried that he will missed anyone..so far, 6 pages of guests are listed..

Second..6 months to go and he want the invitation card to be ready by May!!!
posting and such..crazy...!!
Dad, by August ok or September maybe...?

Third, Nikah different hall, kenduri different hall...erm, flower is a must...maybe some fresh flower will do for nikah dais...

me?smiling all the way.. :)

fourth, bunga telur, goodies bag etc..he hates details like I do!!!

next, he asked me about the photographer, mekap and inai..

actually, I quite scared to tell him that I already booked the Inai for RM150...

and he said, "ur aunty paid more than that.."...lega...hahaha
and he want the ukur-ukir inai one..hahah

Today, we sort of have daughter-father talk peacefully..
he want to know how i want my wedding day to be..
especially the akad nikah part..
and he listened to all my dream...
and I can't thanked enough for that..
and...mommy just observed far away and advise a bit here and there..
I Love this feeling...

I am a very happy daughter now!!

THANKS ABAH.... :D

yeah, we had time together fishing last week..family time...:)

saja selit kat sini..hihi

nota kaki: cik su syg, i still owed u an entry!!!

W-day prep: hall done!!!

Discussion to get the best deal!!

My dad so far happy with the hall...

we already blocked the date..

deposit is on the way..:)

my dad is very curious about the room..

we made a visit..

and now I am very curious what are they thinking..

"berapa banyak duit yang terlebur ka??" hahaha

one thing done...next nak confirmkan pelamin dan baju!!

nervous nih....